I feel so wronged, but since this is a sensitive topic, I haven’t even been able to tell my wife. This isn't meant to start a gender war, so please just take it as a vent. (My own account isn't working, so I secretly signed up with a family member's ID just to write this—I'm curious if I'm really in the wrong.) I’m a male office worker in my early 30s. I used to work at the HQ, but I was scouted for a TF team and have been working at a separate satellite office for about a year now.