We're a couple, 24F (me) and 28M (him). I opened Pandora's box when I saw his YouTube account logged into his Smart TV.
Female 'Lookbooks' (the ones where they put on clothes starting from their underwear), swimsuit reviews, female workouts (with angles and outfits focusing on specific body parts)โhe's subscribed to about 30 female YouTubers in their early-to-mid 20s who are clearly targeting male views. The rest of his subs are just stocks and crypto. I'm in such shock that I'm wondering if I should even keep dating him... He doesn't know I saw his sub list and I'm acting normal for now, but we're supposed to spend Christmas together on an overnight trip. I don't know if I can even enjoy the date feeling like this...
He's an adult, it's not illegal, and those women are uploading that stuff voluntarily to make money. I get all that logically, but the fact that he went out of his way to find them, subscribe, and watch them on a big TV screen at home is just... gross. Am I being too sensitive?
"The comments are a total battlefield: half are disgusted by the 'pervy' subscription list, while the other half says it's just a biological instinct and tells the OP to get over it."
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