We agreed to split the wedding costs 50/50, but since the venue is a bit high-end, we booked a place where we have to pay the meal costs + the remaining balance on the day. I was told the in-laws were going to give my husband all the wedding gift money they received, so I thought that was that, but then suddenly he says he’s paying for all the meals himself? My parents were worried it was too much for him, but then a few days later, his story changed again.