I'm getting married next month. My mom passed away early, so I grew up with a lot of help from my mom's side of the family. My aunt is especially dear to me; she even came to my parent-teacher days at school and packed my lunch boxes for the CSAT. So, we decided she would sit in the mother's seat and do the candle lighting ceremony. But my future in-laws are saying, 'Shouldn't we just skip that? It seems a bit... indecent.' I'm so upset and hurt. Am I just being overly sensitive because the wedding is coming up?