We're a couple in our early 30s. My hands are shaking and my heart is racing so much right now, please bear with me if I'm rambling. My husband and I are the same age; we got married after dating for a year. You might think a year is short, but we've known each other since high school and actually dated for almost two years back then. Since we've known each other forever, even after breaking up, we had tons of mutual friends through our mid-20s, so I always heard news about him and we knew each other's business.